Prop 8, Homosexuality, and the Loud Lack of Conversation

Opposites

Both ends of the issue… (Photo credit: …-Wink-…)

Everyone is talking about the Supreme Court of the United States hearing oral arguments on the matter of California’s Proposition 8, which banned homosexual marriage. But is anyone listening?

I sat down to an interview today on that matter. It’s been quite a while since I talked openly about the issue of homosexuality. In the last few years, it’s been like talking about taking a trip to the sun: Everyone knows where it is, but very few know how to get there, or how to deal with the basics without getting burned.

And so I hope to continue to the conversation. I want to reopen the floor for reasoned debate without the slurs and the stereotypes. Change begins with me. Say it with me: “Change begins with me.” Continue reading

Moderates are Miserable: Would You Care to Join Me Anyway?

Middle Road

“Don’t tarry on the center line.” (Photo credit: wenzday01)

Black and white. Right or wrong. Agree or disagree.

This seems to be the polarized world in which we are living. Whether it is politics, sexuality, or even sporting events, there is a growing element of “if you aren’t with us, you are against us.” That leaves moderates ( who love hard questions with even harder to find answers about as much as the rest of you) in a place where we feel cast out of all camps simultaneously. I’ve always been told that the middle of the road was a dangerous place to hang out.

I’ve noticed some of my compatriots falling away, choosing a side so that there’s a place to go when the winds blow cold or when the heat gets turned up. And those of us who don’t make that decision, we find ourselves getting yelled at by Republicans on one side and Democrats on the other.

One might begin to think that there’s only two sides to this and one is right and the other is wrong.

But maybe — just maybe — there’s room for honest disagreement.

Let’s take a look at a pair of blog posts. The first is from Hemant Mehta (The Friendly Atheist). The post is entitled, “If You Oppose Marriage Equality, What Else Am I Supposed to Call You?”

He’s about as liberal as they come, and by his own definition. I don’t have a problem with his stance. It belongs to him and he gets to deal with it just like I live with the consequences of my own. My problem comes when he starts to paint, with the same broad strokes all around, everyone who disagrees with him.

He writes:

If you’re voting against marriage equality, you’re a bigot. If you’re denying somebody a right that you possess — for no rational basis whatsoever — I don’t know what else to call you. There’s not a single, credible, non-religious reason to deny equal rights to gay people. [emphasis mine]

He’s not willing to recognize that many of the folks who are disagreeing with him (Hemant) are disagreeing on religious grounds. Some of these folks believe that God’s will is more important than the will of the people. You start to see why they vote against it.

Further problems develop when Hemant starts quoting people who paint with even broader brushes. For example, Jen McWright calls Chik Fil A CEO Dan Cathy a bigot because ”you support those terrible things I listed above: legally denying GLBT individuals equal rights, slandering them publicly, damaging them through terrible psychological programs, and even killing them.”

I doubt that even the most diligent liberal researcher could find that Dan Cathy has at any time suggested or supported the idea of killing homosexuals. But hey, maybe I’m wrong. I’m a moderate. I try to allow room for that. But I do think that Cathy is trying to keep the government from approving a practice that results in an institutionalization of a sinful act. I think he believes that. I think many Christians are motivated by that — not because they need the moral high ground, but because there is an honest fear that redefining marriage will result in more and more people committing sins that will result in their ultimate destruction — and that the .

The Fischer Files

The Fischer Files (Photo credit: Jody May-Chang | ‘As I See It’ on May-Chang.com)

Conservatives Go Too Far As Well

On the other side of the coin, there are far too many Christians who are doing exactly what the left is claiming they are doing. The second post for your examination is found at CNN and is more of a roundup. The article, entitled “We Don’t Teach Hate” demonstrates the venomous attacks from the most conservative churches in our country.

CNN reports, “The video of the singing boy was the latest in a string of viral anti-gay videos that have surfaced from independent churches.  Those videos have been resoundingly condemned by religious leaders, even by conservatives who believe homosexual sex is a sin.”

AFA and Bryan Fischer are at the forefront of the anti-gay movement. Their rants are featured on right-wing watch group websites so often, the members often leave comments like, “Is this really news? A new day dawns and Fischer says something hateful. That’s not news.”

The problem with AFA and Fischer is that their remarks are the basis for the broad brush attacks on Christianity from folks like The Friendly Atheist, Hemant Mehta.

Rachel Held Evans

Rachel Held Evans (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Look at Both Sides

There is more to Christianity than the people who claim to speak on behalf of us all. Rachel Held Evans wrote a remarkable piece about what not to do in the midst of this Chik Fil A brouhaha.

The article, “Some Words for Christians on Both Sides of the Chik Fil A War,” got some seriously heavy traffic on social media sites like Facebook and Twitter, and produced a large number of responses, both good and bad across the blogosphere.

In fact, that article is what got Hemant Mehta so uptight to begin with.

He completely missed the point of Evan’s article, which is to say, he’s missed the main point in this conversation. This is no longer about who gets to be right or wrong. Unless we begin to actually have civil conversations about these issues without slapping people around, verbally, physically, or otherwise, we are going to find ourselves divided to the point that we are no longer able to live together — on the Internet or anywhere else.

Church: We must redevelop our ability to tolerate (not necessarily agree with) people who hold different opinions than our own. We must redevelop our ability to speak lovingly to people who are living lives that we feel are disobedient to God’s will. We must redevelop our ability to look beyond the actions of a person and see that they are beloved by God whether they know it or not.

Some Ideas on How to Remain Engaged

The point is simple: There are those of us who are not going to stand in the way of those who choose to live their lives this way. In fact, I’m more likely to shout down the folks who are vitriolic than the people who are passionate, regardless of which side they stand on.

You must ask yourself: Is my goal to be right, or to help others see things the way I see them?

If you are only interested in being right, then you’ve read the wrong blog post, obviously. Your comments are still welcomed, but you’re trying to find a chicken sandwich at a taco stand. There’s not one here.

For those of you who have resolved to make your way through this without losing your mind, or selling your soul (regardless of your religious beliefs), here are some things you might want to keep in mind:

1. Have a clear definition of words like “bigot,” “intolerant,” and “hate.” The world doesn’t have to agree with you. People who disagree with you are not automatically intolerant. Your religious opinions are opinions; a matter of faith. Your secular opinions are still opinions; a matter of your convictions. The rest of the world is not required to agree with you. I highly recommend seeking to understand before seeking to be understood.

2. Don’t assume that your religious argument is going to sway a secular person. There are hundreds of books and articles that demonstrate clearly that the basic beliefs of Traditional Christianity are not resonating with a large number of USAmericans. Books like, You Lost Me and Unchurched by David Kinnaman and the raw data coming in from Barna Research clearly indicates that we cannot roll out our teaching summaries and expect people to “get it.”

3. Don’t assume your secular argument is going to sway a religious person. When someone has to decide between keeping friends and obedience to the Creator God of the Universe, you might not rank above the Almighty in that consideration. Right or wrong, religious beliefs that are strong enough to make it into the public square are often deeply held.

4. Above all, know when you are having a religious conversation and when you having a secular conversation. If you cannot tell the difference, you may be speaking a different language. Hemant Mehta is simply framing the argument in terms he understands. He’s also eliminating religious beliefs as valid reasons for disagreement. That may work for him, but it would be unfair for me to dismiss him simply because he doesn’t choose to validate my religious context. It simply means an impasse — hopefully one that will not last for long.

5. Look for the common ground. After all, we are human beings sharing a planet, geography, and an internet. If you are willing to write someone off just because of their beliefs, then why would you be surprised when someone writes you off for yours? As a miserable moderate, I find myself arguing with almost all of my friends sooner or later. I’ve had “likes” and kudo comments on Facebook one day, and then snark and slam posted in less than 24 hour’s time. And yet, I keep going back for more. Why?

Because my friends are not picked and chosen based on how they vote, where they work, or with whom they sleep. My friends are usually chosen based on their ability to see me as a human being who is trying to see them as a human being as well.

What other advice can you share to help us get through these polarized battles? How can we reframe the conversation so that everyone’s worth is recognized?

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This is Not “Taking a Real Stand”

English: Broken glass

Shattered like our Covenant (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

The Western Jurisdiction of the United Methodist Church has passed legislation actively encouraging the infraction of our polity and covenant as United Methodists, particularly as United Methodist Clergy.

From the document (linked above), which passed overwhelmingly at that Jurisdictional Conference:

In response to our common belief that God’s grace and love is available to all persons, the Western Jurisdiction of the United Methodist Church states our belief that the United Methodist Church is in error on the subject of “homosexuality’s incompatibility with Christian teaching.”

We commend to our bishops, clergy, local churches and ministry settings, the challenge to operate as if the statement in Para. 161F does not exist, creating a church where all people are truly welcome.

The secretary of the Western Jurisdictional Conference will submit this statement of Gospel Obedience to the Jurisdictional College of Bishops, each Annual Conference, and chairpersons of Boards of Ordained Ministry for discussion and implementation.

Those of you who are not familiar with our polity should know that the United Methodist Church currently holds as its doctrine the following statement on homosexuality: ”

The practice of homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching. Therefore self-avowed practicing homosexuals1 are not to be certified as candidates, ordained as ministers, or appointed to serve in The United Methodist Church.

The only body of the United Methodist Church that may revoke or change this stance is the General Conference of the United Methodist Church. A few weeks ago, that body failed to make such a change. The Western Jurisdiction has made this statement in violation of covenant and polity, and is rejecting the denominational stand.

I have no problem with people who follow their conscience and the leadership of the Spirit in their lives. In fact, I applaud it. I understand that this move was a carefully considered theological decision based on the dictates of conscience and done with careful exegesis (by some, anyway) and painstaking reflection.

But this action shows little regard for the connection and the covenant vow made at ordination.

I have little respect for folks who take a stand on an issue by defying the connection and covenant while still reaping the benefits of the connection and covenant. 

All clergy were asked at ordination: “Have you studied the doctrines of The United Methodist Church? … Have you studied our form of Church discipline and polity? … Do you approve our Church government and polity? Will you support and maintain them?”

Maintenance means upgrades and changes sometimes. Our polity allows for that. What it does not allow, without ethical breach, is ignoring our polity, even for the sake of conscience. Instead, provisions are made for withdrawal, honorable location, or sabbatical time which might be used to further this agenda of change within our denomination.

If you cannot support and maintain our polity while working to change it, then conscience dictates a departure. Those who value the covenant too highly to depart it should at least respect it while working to change the polity.

What this has done is establish a precedent for ignoring our Discipline. You might agree with this action in the current setting, but what happens when a Jurisdiction allows a bishop to make arbitrary changes to the status of one’s ordination — based on conscience of course — without an appeal to process? This precedent becomes a thing of destruction and not a path worthy of our best traditions.

If this or any other issue is worth defying the denomination, then defy it, by all means. But don’t pick and choose the comfortable parts of the covenant like pension, guaranteed appointment, insurance, and, for some, parsonage housing while you refuse to abide by the uncomfortable theology that is, for good or for ill, in place by the will of our General Conference.

No cheers for the Western Jurisdiction on this matter.

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Trayvon Martin – Twice Victimized

Trayvon Martin’s death has been called a tragedy. It has been called a murder. It has been called justifiable homicide. His killer, George Zimmerman, has been called a murderer, a racist, and a vigilante.

NEW YORK, NY - MARCH 21:  Demonstrators chant ...

NEW YORK, NY - MARCH 21: Demonstrators chant in support of slain teenager Trayvon Martin at the Million Hoodies March on March 21, 2012 in New York City. Hundreds of protesters marched from Manhattan's Union Square, calling for justice in the killing of Trayvon Martin, 17, who was was pursued and shot on February 26 in Sanford, Florida by 'neighborhood watch' member George Zimmerman, reportedly because the teenager's hoodie made him look suspicious. Under Florida's 'Stand Your Ground' law, Zimmerman has not been charged with a crime in the shooting. (Image credit: Getty Images via @daylife)

The silence from white evangelicals has been deafening. The clamor from the african-american community has been building to a roar. Bloggers like Drew Hart are rightly asking, “Where are the protests from white religious leaders across the nation?”

There is even cross-talk from the LGBT community regarding the potential dangers for homeless LGBT teens who “may appear suspicious due to their homelessness,  having been exiled as it were from house and home by their families.

So quickly, concerned individuals seek to make this about a cause; or about a color. The details of this confrontation that left a 17-year-old dead are swirling. The facts are being reported as gospel. The authorities are being second-guessed (and perhaps with good reason).

What happened? Any number of people will offer you their opinion as flat, unadulterated facts. I am not one of them. I do not know.

I have not called for the arrest of George Zimmerman. I didn’t call for the arrest of Trevor Dooley when a similar event occured in September of 2010.

Racism is wrong. Did it play a part in Trayvon’s death? I don’t know. I have my suspicions. [EDIT: The recently released 911 recordings may reveal that George Zimmerman used a racial slur to describe Trayvon Martin.] Did it play a part in Michael Whitt’s death? I have no idea.

Is it wrong to allow one human being to apply deadly force to another human being because the first person feels threatened? I think that the current law, as it has been reported by the media, needs to be reconsidered. Stand Your Ground is a variation on the Castle Doctrine, and one that needs immediate attention. That is a task for lawmakers in Florida, and one that demands immediate action.

Racism is a wrong that will not be righted until we decide to deal with each other as individual persons, human beings instead of white or black. And we, as a nation, perpetuate a myopic view of each other when we draw lines of race and lifestyle around the tragic and perhaps even wrongful death of one human being at the hands of another.

To say that a death is wrong is one thing. Obviously, Trayvon’s death was wrong. But was Zimmerman’s action criminal? Was it motivated by race? Again, I don’t know. We will see.

The sad part is that, at this point in our history, we don’t have a choice about our myopic attempts to address this. If Zimmerman’s motive was racial, then the lines must be drawn. To erase those lines, we must know where they exist. To reach a solution, we must continue to address the problem.

In the meantime, we cannot afford to be colorblind. Neither can we afford to draw conclusions without first answering questions.

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Surprise, More Eisegesis

Let’s get right to it:  I’d like you to consider an increasingly widespread problem of poor interpretation of Scripture.

I refer to colleagues who seem to disregard Scripture when it disagrees with the modern culture. You see it more and more in our denomination, especially around the convening of General Conference.

Every seminarian was once taught that Scripture is the shaper of culture and life, not the other way around.

Naturally, I’m a little worried about colleagues who try to read some sort of approval for one thing or another out of the voices of early Christianity when we have centuries of interpretation to show otherwise. I’m especially concerned when the argument is made from poor exegesis, or interpretation of Scripture.

In Biblical exegesis, the opposite of exegesis (to draw out) is eisegesis (to draw in), in the sense of an eisegetic commentator “importing” or “drawing in” his or her own purely subjective interpretations in to the text, unsupported by the text itself.

An Eisegetic Example

A couple of days ago, an opinion piece appeared at the United Methodist Portal. I read through retired pastor Rev. William McElvaney’s comments on the misplaced emphasis on Discipline rather than discipleship.

I wasn’t surprised to hear that he felt that we needed to focus more on God’s grace than on judgement. He went on to say that there are far more passages about God’s love than verses about sexual sin, among others.

His opening paragraphs utilize a great deal of rhetoric to attack the wording in the Book of Discipline. He makes a good case for eliminating — or tightening — the language regarding incompatibility. Should it be “Christian teaching” or “Jesus Christ?”

That’s a different blog post. The problem I have with the article comes near the end. Clearly, Rev. McElvaney is lobbying for a change. I fear that his interpretation of Scripture has been affected by his opinions instead of the other way around. Read his last few paragraphs closely, and you will find that he is trading the term “grace” for a more important term: Atonement.

But before he does this, he attempts to stack God’s radical love against a few statements against immoral sexual behavior.

The ranking of a few statements by Paul above all the persuasive and powerful texts related to God’s radical love through Jesus Christ can hardly qualify as serious biblical inquiry and authority.

The bad news here is that they aren’t mutually exclusive. And I was gravely concerned about why Rev. McElvaney thought that they were. A few lines down, and I found the flaw in his theological argument.

A Wrong Understanding of Grace

With all due respect, Rev. McElvaney has made the mistake of thinking that grace is what overcomes sin. Atonement is what overcomes sin. Grace is what made it, and continues to make it available. Without grace, we could not be forgiven.

John Wesley believed that “nothing in the Christian system is of greater consequence than the doctrine of atonement” (Letter to the Reverend Mr. Law, Jan. 6, 1756). And yet, many churches spend far more time on grace than atonement these days. Wesley understood that Christ died to satisfy the wrath of God, and he held that the purpose of Christ’s death was the restoration of man’s relationship with God. We don’t hear about that much. I suppose it makes for bad press and poor reception by the public.

McElvaney provides this misuse of grace as a description for atonement by saying:

To be profoundly biblical from a Christian standpoint is to give prominence and priority to texts in which Jesus lifts up God’s unconditional and inclusive grace.

There is no question that Wesley comprehended an atonement that was universal in nature. No sin can prevent God’s grace. There is no one, anywhere, who has sinned to the extent that they cannot be forgiven, period.

But it has to be received. What does that mean?

Grace makes atonement available, but it does not make it mandatory. In other words, grace is hardly unconditional. Repenting of sin is the requirement, made possible by Christ’s atoning sacrifice and available to all through God’s grace.

To be clear, I’m sure that we all agree on God’s inclusive grace. There is no sin that can separate us from the love of God. And God’s grace is offered unconditionally. We can’t earn it. We can’t deserve it. That’s the nature of grace. For some Scripture to back that up, just read this:

4But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, 5he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, 6whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, 7so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life.” — Titus 3:4-7

However, we can reject God’s grace and thus the atonement that comes through it. Take a look at this:

14 Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. 15 See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. 16 See that no one is sexually immoral, or is godless like Esau, who for a single meal sold his inheritance rights as the oldest son.

My understanding of Wesleyan Arminian theology is that our justification is dependent upon repentance. Metanoia is the Greek word, meaning a change in one’s thinking and thus behavior.

While I accept and understand the notion of unconditional love and inclusive grace, I cannot find grounds to accept unconditional grace. There are no preconditions, to be sure. But there are some expectations that follow.

4It is impossible for those who have once been enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, who have shared in the Holy Spirit, 5who have tasted the goodness of the word of God and the powers of the coming age, 6if they fall away, to be brought back to repentance, because to their loss they are crucifying the Son of God all over again and subjecting him to public disgrace.” — Hebrews 6:4-6

Technically, that’s not one of God’s conditions. That condition falls upon us.

Rev. McElvaney has made the common mistake of applying grace for atonement. I’ll admit that the difference is subtle, but not for someone who has studied theology as all Elders of our denomination are required to do.

A Simple Mistake

From what I can tell, this confusion about “universal and unlimited grace” and “limited, post-conditional atonement” is brought on by the driving need to give a growing crowd what they want. It does not come from Wesleyan principles. It cannot be found in our doctrine. It is absent from Scripture, insofar as we currently read it as a denomination. If there is another way to read it, then by all means, share it. How has grace superceded atonement?

Unfortunately, he has provided no grounds for interpreting Scripture differently. At best, he has alluded to the fact that that Scripture might not be speaking to monogamous, loving, homosexual relationships — although that assertion bears the taint of eisegesis.

In other words, the arguments I am hearing are based on eisegesis of Scripture — under the sway of popular opinion. Rev. McElvaney points out that other denominations are pursuing this mindset “have caused no great departure.” So popular opinion should be considered here?

Hardly. That is exactly what eisegesis is.

eisegesis

[ahy-si-jee-sis]
noun, plural -ses ?[-seez]
an interpretation, especially of Scripture, that expresses the interpreter’s own ideas, bias, or the like, rather than the meaning of the text.

 

Two Major Problems

Theologians make mistakes. We do it all too often. Here, we are finding two major theological mistakes. Whether offering salvation without requiring repentance, or interpreting scripture so as to ignore sin, we are making a mockery of our faith and a shambles of God’s Word.

Cheap Grace

Salvation without repentance is cheap grace and makes a joke of the crucifixion. But this is what we offer when we appeal to the “grace passages” over and against the passages where sin is condemned. When we claim grace and assert that God is going to continually reapply forgiveness for a repeated sin, we crucify Christ again and again.

1 What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? 2 By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer?” — Romans 6:1-2

We must stop ignoring behaviors that God prohibits. And before anyone cries out that this is a misbegotten focus on sexual sins, I would be glad to point out that I spend far more time on strife, jealousy, angry tempers, disputes, slanders, gossip, arrogance, and disturbances as per the admonition in 2 Corinthians 12:20. I find that in the church far more often than sexual sin.

And I’m often surprised to hear that I’m the first pastor to take a stance on any of these sins. Perhaps that is the problem, more than any focus on homosexuality.  A fine argument could be made that we have softened our stance on practically every sin.

The Ubiquitous Specter of Eisegesis

The core of the problem is the practice of allowing the views of society to color the interpretation of Scripture. Theologians simply cannot rewrite the meaning of Scripture to meet the needs of modern culture.

The Bible says what it says. It applies where it applies.

I suppose that where Scripture is silent, we could always maintain silence as well. Except that there is a howling culture out there demanding an answer. In fact, many of them are already manufacturing an answer.

Make the Move

Though Scripture is plain spoken on the issue of homosexuality, a growing number of theologians are convinced that what the Bible calls homosexuality is not the same as the “long-term consensual same-gender loving relationships so prevalent today,” as Rev. McElvaney puts it.

If that means that Scripture is silent, then where is the prophetic word? Rather than standing boldly to proclaim that God is doing a new thing, too many scholars and pastors point more and more often to the growing crowds who are becoming less patient with the Church. Popular opinion and cultural bias in our reading of Scripture dishonors our traditions of excellence in scholarship and inflicts harm on those who have been faithful to the interpretation they’ve been handed.

In the absence of a prophetic word of authority and authenticity, this justification for homosexual behavior may be received by the world, but it cannot be received by the Church or the Kingdom of Christ for which it stands.

And in any event, serious theologians must abandon eisegetical practices and remember that our calling is to shape the culture and not be shaped by it.