Growing at Grace

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Leading out of Enthusiasm (Photo credit: glsims99)

What makes for a good leader?

Most folks think that “followers” would be the required component. But anyone who has led anything more than a rousing chorus of “Row Row Row Your Boat” understands that the measure of leadership is the number of leaders you produce, not the number of followers you attract.

Leaders don’t just magically appear. Yet, many congregations still expect their leaders to arrive. Rare are the congregations who expect leaders to grow out of the organic processes of discipleship. Instead, we search. We advertise. We recruit.

I have found a couple of major obstacles to developing leaders in the local church. Let’s take a look at both of them in turn while examining some of the solutions that can help us overcome them. Continue reading

With Friends Like These…

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If you don’t manage it, it will manage you. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

People sure do carry a lot of anger and frustration around.

I’ve had a dozen conversations this week about how to deal with difficult people, how to control anger and frustration, and methods of calming an anxious spirit.

Perhaps, this is a good time to share some wisdom I’ve discovered and advice that I’ve been offered. Continue reading

Take Disciples … Yes, You

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The Great Commission (Photo credit: Brother Timothy)

Today is Saturday.

That means that I’ve heard that “the Church is in decline” approximately a hundred times since Sunday, give or take a few.

It means that I’ve heard that the answer is “to make disciples for the transformation of the world,” approximately seventy-five times. You may have noticed that I hear about the problem more often than I hear about any proposed solutions.

But there is a great deal of confusion about what it means to “disciple” someone. The word, after all, is a noun and a verb.

But who are we to be “discipling” anyone?

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I’m Done “Growing the Church”

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Pews. Stop filling them. (Photo credit: boxchain)

Yes, you read that right. I’m done.

No more outreach strategies to fill the pews. No more ideas to draw young people. No more switching out the hard stuff for lighter fare in hopes that we will appeal to a larger audience.

No more “growing the church.”

It seems that every time I sit down to think of ways to lead people to Jesus, I find a new way to “align a program” or “bring focus to an issue” — or worse, I find good people who mistakenly think that my job is to be a chaplain, or just their “professional visitor.” Gotta get those visitors to close the deal and join up.

Too many people think that mission of the Church is to swell the ranks and fill the pews. Too many people think that this task is my job. Too many people find me a failure for not getting this done.

So. No more just “growing the church.” Continue reading

Church: Get Off Your Bike and Swim

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Triathletes. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I am not an athlete. But I have the utmost respect for those who are. Among the most revered athletes in the world are the men and women who compete in the triathlon. The Iron Man Triathlon is the first I remember hearing about. The lean and chiseled competitors demonstrate a diligence and discipline that few can muster.

The main reason the winners do so well is because they don’t try to ride their bicycles in the water.

I know it seems simple. But the logic is inescapable. The cycling leg is usually after the swimming portion of the race. Not only is the bicycle unsuited for water, but using it in the water would require navigating the course backwards.

So it is with modern Christian discipleship. We are running a race unlike any Paul ever imagined. There’s much more to our race than mere running. The metaphor needs updating.

Here’s the thrust: Our race course has changed. Christendom is no more, aptly put by S. Michael Craven at the Christian Post.

In the age of Christendom, the church occupied a central and influential place in society and the Western world considered itself both formally and officially Christian. So when we speak of post-Christendom, we are making the point that the church no longer occupies this central place of social and cultural hegemony and Western civilization no longer considers itself to be formally or officially Christian.

Where once we relied upon sending good Christian men to Washington to ratify our beliefs with laws, that luxury is no longer the reality of the Church. Today, our culture is made up of a wide-range of world views.

The Myth of Patriotism Denoting Christianity

When we say, “But America is a Christian nation,” we are really saying, “We want things to be like they were.” The way things are “supposed to be” and the stark reality are often two different things. While we are visiting the 1950s, it is worthy to note that the good old days weren’t always good. This Christian nation was being hyper-developed in response to the threat of Communism. Churches swelled to capacity and exploded into prominence as neighbor after neighbor joined to prove his or her allegiance to the flag, and sometimes to the Savior.

From Chris Price’s American Church History blog:

The increase in religious sentiment in America during the 1940s and 1950s brings up an interesting question.  Was this Christianity more pro-Jesus or pro-America?  While Christianity and America are by no means mutually exclusive, some people seem to equate the mission of America and the mission of Christianity as one and the same.  I tend to view this as a danger, because America has at times been on the wrong side of issues (Indian policy and slavery are a couple of obvious examples far enough in the past not to engender a major political debate).  If Christians equate America’s mission with that of Christianity, they are likely to unquestioningly stand by if something similar came across the radar in the future.

Now What?

Now, our efforts to make disciples cannot rely on the assumptions of the 1950s.

  • We cannot assume that people will come to church because it is the right thing to do, or because it is the popular thing to do.
  • We cannot expect people to look favorably on religion in general.
  • We cannot expect people to agree with us because of social pressures or societal norms.
  • We cannot expect people to have a pre-existing relationship with Christ because it is a part of the common culture.

We must learn to navigate a new culture as disciples of Jesus, often un-welcomed and sometimes persecuted. And rather than ask for a do-over, we should adapt and overcome. Rather than ride our bicycle into the surf, we should face forward and seek the finish line.

The transition from swim to cycle and cycle to marathon is a place where folks are watching to see how the athletes manage the change.

History will mark whether this period of the life of the Church is marked by a smooth transition or a wrong-way error of epic proportions.

To succeed in this modern mess, we must recall the original pre-institutional methods of discipleship. Church renewal throughout history is marked by a return to relational discipleship, personal evangelism, and a reliance upon laity. Read up on John Wesley. Recall the Lay Witness Movement. Turn back the clock to the Reformation. But don’t seek the days of the super-institutional Church of the 1950s.

Those days are gone.

As missionaries in our own country, we have a to-do list:

  • We must emphasize our own discipleship first.
  • We must remember how to share our experience of Christ.
  • We must be able to transmit the Gospel message without jargon and code-words.
  • We must rely on Christ’s love for the sinner to motivate our efforts to transform the world rather than the desperate need to be “right.”

When did you discover that your Church was still living in the 1950s?

Which of these to-do list items will be hardest for you?

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